The Trouble with Love

Sometimes, the trouble with love is that it’s forever; and the trouble with forever is that it doesn’t make much sense with mortality. It’s unfair to say that mortal beings should be held to such accountability which exceeds their natural existence. I don’t lament because of love, I don’t find anger for its bidding; what discontent I find lies within its imposition of forever upon mortality—my mortality. How can it ask this of me? How can it demand that I go on loving endlessly, when, surely, I will die? There is nothing to do with such questions. There are no answers to be had in the wanting. It is an infinite task for a finite existence—a cosmic joke of bitter cruelty. And yet, far beyond the lines of reason, I sit with love; I become something that I cannot be—and its maddening (truly maddening).

Matthew Rosario

American / Writer / Musician

  • Need I say more? I loved the way you put this. A question that I cannot find an answer to. It is well beyond me but so true. I can only love until my last breath is taken away. Nice Post.

    • Thanks for reading. As I said in response to Cathie’s comment, it depends how you define your life. I believe that I will go on loving forever, even when this body is done with me.

  • Need I say more? I loved the way you put this. A question that I cannot find an answer to. It is well beyond me but so true. I can only love until my last breath is taken away. Nice Post.

  • I think in the case of us mortals, forever is relative. Not like the kind that you see once a year and still talks to you like you’re 12, but the kind that is our lifetime = forever. And even then, being ‘x’ for all that time… it’s a big ask! Good post Matt, it’ll take me forever to work it out 🙂

    • Thanks for reading Cathie. The truth is that, forever depends on what you truly believe. If you believe that love ends when your mortal body dies, well, then, that’s where it dies. But Albert Einstein often quoted the laws of the conversation of energy, in which, energy is never truly lost. It merely changes. I don’t think we have trouble believing that we ca love forever. I think the trouble comes when we realize that ones we love may not understand; they may not love us in the same way; they may never truly know the ends that you would go for them. In such cases, the burden of love is great, and forever, greater still. It becomes that such a burden can weight so greatly that mortals like ourselves cannot bear it. The mind itself can barely conceive of such ends. And therein lies the dilemma, and, I think, the sheer tragedy of it all.

  • I think in the case of us mortals, forever is relative. Not like the kind that you see once a year and still talks to you like you're 12, but the kind that is our lifetime = forever. And even then, being 'x' for all that time… it's a big ask! Good post Matt, it'll take me forever to work it out 🙂

  • Hana

    Great post! It is against the nature to promise to do anything whether to love or hate in the future. What happens in the future is unknown so all we can do is to "hope" to continue to love the person as long as we can. Hopefully someday I will meet someone who I will want to "till death do us part" but again I really don't think I can promise to love someone for the rest of my life. It is against the nature. We are living and keep changing being.

  • Thanks for reading Cathie. The truth is that, forever depends on what you truly believe. If you believe that love ends when your mortal body dies, well, then, that's where it dies. But Albert Einstein often quoted the laws of the conversation of energy, in which, energy is never truly lost. It merely changes. I don't think we have trouble believing that we ca love forever. I think the trouble comes when we realize that ones we love may not understand; they may not love us in the same way; they may never truly know the ends that you would go for them. In such cases, the burden of love is great, and forever, greater still. It becomes that such a burden can weight so greatly that mortals like ourselves cannot bear it. The mind itself can barely conceive of such ends. And therein lies the dilemma, and, I think, the sheer tragedy of it all.

  • Thanks for reading. As I said in response to Cathie's comment, it depends how you define your life. I believe that I will go on loving forever, even when this body is done with me.

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  • Robert Morschel

    I often wonder if we are perhaps mistaken in thinking that eternity is a long time, as opposed to a state in which time is meaningless.

    • It’s an interesting mental experiment in perception to be sure, though, perhaps because the perception of time and our own mortality is part of our natural experience, it’s accurate to mark time and the significance of eternity. It my be true, objectively speaking, that our perception of time is incorrect, but there is something to be said about the validity of subjectivity, as even Einstein’s theory of Special Relativity can attest that both person’s viewpoints are correct when observing the same event.

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  • Robert Morschel

    I often wonder if we are perhaps mistaken in thinking that eternity is a long time, as opposed to a state in which time is meaningless.

  • It's an interesting mental experiment in perception to be sure, though, perhaps because the perception of time and our own mortality is part of our natural experience, it's accurate to mark time and the significance of eternity. It my be true, objectively speaking, that our perception of time is incorrect, but there is something to be said about the validity of subjectivity, as even Einstein's theory of Special Relativity can attest that both person's viewpoints are correct when observing the same event.

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